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Talks and forums from The Invisible Playground

For parents, students, and school communities

Age-specific sessions that help families understand the systems shaping attention, identity, judgment, and agency.


Screens are a part of everyday life. They are also environments designed to capture attention, shape behavior, amplify social pressure, and bring kids back again.


These talks and forums help families and schools understand those systems in plain language, then build usable habits of awareness, recovery, judgment, and self-direction.

A man teaches children about how screens work in a classroom setting.
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Speaking Experience

From technology stages to school communities.

Gary Gattis has spoken at SXSW, GDC Online, MacWorld, Casual Connect, the Mensa Foundation Colloquium, PAX, school forums, and parent education events on topics ranging from game design, free-to-play economics, mobile esports, and company culture to children, screens, attention, AI, and self-direction.

Practical, non-alarmist, age-specific

Families need a common language.

These sessions help parents and students understand why stopping can feel hard, why games and feeds pull so strongly, why group chats and comparison matter, and how children can practice awareness and agency over time.


The material changes by age, from early screen pull and recovery, to middle school belonging and identity, to high school judgment, AI, authorship, and independence.

Student forums

For elementary, middle, and high school students.

Student sessions help kids see how apps, games, feeds, group chats, and AI systems ask for their attention and shape what feels normal. The result is that kids notice more clearly, pause more often, and make choices that are more their own.
 

Younger students receive playful, visual language for screen pull and “tricksters.” Older students engage more directly with attention, social pressure, identity, AI, authorship, and judgment.

What teachers and students are saying

“My students were fascinated. Gary knows how to explain screen design concepts to kids, and they totally get it.”

5th Grade Teacher, The Island School

“After Gary’s talk, I started seeing the tricks people use on games and TV shows.”

Hannah, 5th grader

“One thing I learned from Gary is that being on screens can change how you feel.”

Cami, 5th grader

“Gary helped me feel much more empowered against screens in middle school.”

Iris, 5th grader

Parent talks

For parents, caregivers, educators, PTOs, and school communities.

Parent talks help adults understand the systems shaping children’s attention, behavior, mood, identity, and judgment. Each session translates complex design and technology patterns into family language and simple next steps.


Parents leave with:


  • A clearer framework for understanding what kids are up against 
  • Better language for talking with children about screens 
  • Concrete strategies for transitions, recovery, and self-direction 
  • Companion tools or guides they can use at home 

What parents are saying

“Your 7-day guide is brilliant - clear, targeted, so very actionable.”

Natalie G.

“This put words to something I could feel, but could not explain.”

Andrew C.

“It’s so clear. Once you’ve seen it, you can’t unsee it.”

Charles B.

“I knew this was going on but could not explain it to my kid.”

Jessica W.

Programs by age

Each age band can be offered as a parent session, student session, or combined school program.

Elementary School | K–5 | Available now

K-5 Parent Talk

K-5 Student Talk

K-5 Student Talk

A parent talk that helps K-5 families understand how screens are designed to pull kids in, and how simple daily practices can build healthier stopping, recovery, and self-direction.


  • How the attention economy works, in plain language 
  • Why stopping feels hard for kids and adults 
  • Actionable strategies for smoother screen transitions 
  • How small shifts can build attention, recovery, and self-direction

K-5 Student Talk

K-5 Student Talk

K-5 Student Talk

A kid-facing talk that helps K–5 students spot the screen tricks designed to pull their attention, so they can set the stop, spot the hook, avoid the bait, and own their attention.


  • How screens try to get, keep, and bring back attention 
  • Why “just one more” can feel so powerful 
  • How to notice screen tricks before getting pulled in 
  • How to stop, recover, and choose what deserves attention

Middle School | Grade 5–8 | Available now

Middle School Parent Talk

Middle School Student Talk

Middle School Student Talk

A practical guide for parents to help middle schoolers recognize how apps, games, feeds, and group chats shape attention, mood, belonging, and identity, and use that awareness to build better judgment online.


  • Why middle school screen life feels different 
  • How games, feeds, and group chats shape attention and mood 
  • Why belonging and comparison become more powerful 
  • How to support recovery, boundaries, and growing self-direction 

Middle School Student Talk

Middle School Student Talk

Middle School Student Talk

A middle school talk that helps students understand how games, feeds, phones, and group chats pull on attention, mood, belonging, and identity, so they can build better judgment and more self-direction online.


  • How platforms shape what feels urgent, important, or normal 
  • How group chats and social feedback create pressure 
  • Why comparison can distort identity 
  • How to notice the effect before choosing the response

High School | Grades 8–12 | In development

Building Autonomy and Judgment

High school students need more than rules. They need space to practice judgment, autonomy, authorship, and preparation for adult life.


These sessions will focus on how older students can move through digital environments with more awareness and independence.

Parent talk

  • Autonomy and family trust 
  • AI, authorship, and original thought 
  • Online identity and reputation 
  • Relationships, social pressure, and judgment 
  • Preparing students for adult life inside systems designed to influence behavior

Student session

  • Attention as a limited resource 
  • AI and the future of authorship 
  • Digital reputation and identity 
  • Relationships, pressure, and values 
  • Choosing what is worth attention

This is for

Families and schools supporting older teens as they prepare for adulthood, independence, and increasingly powerful digital systems.

Session formats

Sessions are adapted for school culture, age range, and community needs.

Common formats include:


  • Parent evening talks 
  • Online Zoom talks
  • Student assemblies 
  • Smaller student forums 
  • PTO or parent community events 
  • Faculty conversations 
  • Combined parent and student programs 
  • Follow-up tools, slides, and discussion materials 

Watch a Sample Talk

A recorded session introducing why screens pull so hard, why stopping feels difficult, and how families can build shared language at home. Recorded 5/6/26.

Bring this work to your school or parent community

For schools, PTOs, parent groups, and community organizations interested in parent talks, student forums, or combined programs.

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The Invisible Playground: How Hidden Screen Systems Shape Childhood is Gary’s developing book and school-based body of work on screen life, attention, identity, and agency.

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